Two bald boys.. two bald boys..
See how they play… see how the play
They all play on the floor mattress
That Abiy put down to ease the tandem nurse
Did you ever see such a thing in you lifeAs two bald boys..
[nyanyi ikut lagu ‘Three Blind Mice’]
Alhamdulillah, both of my boys are very close to each other. Sometimes Hafiy suka ‘bertindak liar’ but what to expect from a 18-month-old boy? When he is over-excited, he can’t control himself. Whoever sits beside him pasti jadi mangsa. But again, he’s still 18 month old so acceptable lah. It’s a different story if he’s 18 year old.
Hafiy loves to play with Fahry. He always offers his truck, books, cards, etc. ro his baby brother. Lawak kadang-kadang looking at them, when Hafiy hands any object to Fahry dengan muka macam “Ambil lah dik, ambil. Jom kita main sama-sama”. Hitting his baby brother is normal. Bukan dia sengaja. He still can’t has fully control over his own limbs. Even his eye-hand coordination pun still weak.
Some mothers with kids with close age gap having some things in common, one of them is ‘abang suka pukul adik’. We’re not excluded. But from my observation:
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He’s not jealous or something, he just can’t distinguish his brother as a little baby. He wants to play with the baby like playing with his other friends.
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He is yet to fully control his body.
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He just wants to pat, but his energy bursts.
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He’s a little kid himself.
One thing I always put in mind is “Never put any label on my children”. Except labels like ‘Si Pandai’,’Si Kacak’… Tu OK la.
I think a mother shouldn’t stop saying (if any), “Anak sulung I ni nakal sangat, suka sangat pukul adiknya”. It’s 2 things.. NAKAL SANGAT and SUKA SANGAT PUKUL ADIK. 2 things that if a mother says it over and over again, would i be granted?
Is kids’ manner ‘formed’ by their parents or the kids’ unique personality?
I’m not sure about this, cos I never have experience talking to any parents yang anaknya tergolong dalam group ‘nakal tak bertempat dan tak boleh dikawal’. I really want to know how do they feel when their kids asal masuk rumah orang mula rasa nak tunggang terbalikkan everything.
Are you one of them? Mind to share?
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sy setuju
aselalu kalu kauthar debuk aisyah
sy yakin yg dia sebenarnya geram ssb adiknya comel pada pandangan dia,tp dia tak reti nak show mcmana geramnya tu so dia debuk la
hehehe
hehe betul2.
amir & arif macam tu lah dulu.. tp la ni, amir dah almost 5 years old, dia sayang2 si Zeri macam cute je.. (sapa nak puji anak sendiri kalau tak mak diorang kannn..)
haha. budak2 mmg cute. saya mengakuinya jua!
wah, fahry sudah besar. he looks so matured…
mature kah? bole ngorat? wit wit
anak saya yg first selalu dilabel as hyper..dia akan senyap waktu tido je…tp so far, dia and adik nya leh dikatakan geng yg baik..jarang nmpk dia nk terdebuk adik dia..:)
imran pun selalu babab irma. tapi bukan irma sorang je yang kena. mama, abah, atuk, nenek dia semua dah pernah kena penangan babab imran. hahaha.
bagi saya, saya rasa imran pelik kenapa irma rapat semacam dengan saya berbanding dia. yelah, imran tak pernah bf sedangkan irma sentiasa bergayut. mungkin dari situ kot, timbul sedikit sebanyak rasa pelik plus jeles.
si kacak dan si pandai dibolehkan…heheh
hehe.. alahai cutenya hafiy n fahry..
erm.. biasa lah kan. kecik lagi mr fahry tu. nanti da besar sikit, sure seronok hafiy main dengan dia..
macam alia dengan danial. cute tgk depa berdua tu!
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“asal masuk rumah orang mula rasa nak tunggang terbalikkan everything.”
kakyong ada 2 anak sedara, dari 1 ibu & 1 bapa (which bapa is my bro).. anak2 dia dari kecik sampai skrg memang kuat menunggang-terbalikkan rumah orang. the eldest akan masuk 9 thn tak lama lagi & yg adik 7 tahun.
my makbonda memang sgt2 tak tahn kalo depa dtg rumah.. habis dipanjat rak, buku2/majalah diserakkan.. pendek kata memang kuat menyelongkar.. bila makbonda mrah @ tegur, jgn punggah2, letih la opah nak susun balik.. mama si 2 org ni nanti akan tarik muka (setakat ini tak pernah lagi kakyong nampak dia beraksi normal spt ibu2 lain, yg akan tarik anak @ btahu jgn panjat2, malu lah rumah orang.. never never never.. dia biarkan ajer…)
eh, ini adalah luahan perasaan ibu yng terkena ditunggangterbalikkan rumahnyer.. hihi..
kalo depa dtg rumah kakyong, memang tak berhenti la mulut maklong nyer .. jadi tarzan pun yer.. kalo bg minum2, simply2 bagi tumpah.. kalo tumpah scawan takper,.. tapi 1 jug.. kalo dpt makan, Ya Allah, tak hingat donia.. lapor sgt, macam makbapa tak pernah bagi makan… kalo makan elok2 takper, ni makan mcm baby 18 mths, sepah sana sini.. dah abis that food, minta lagi suh buat lain.. kakyong tak kesah sgt, depa nak makan byk ke aper, kakyong memang suka masak.. tp dah kat rumah org tu behave lah sikit,.. ni dah sekolah pun, tp masih tak pandai beradap.. siapa kah yg salah sebenarnya.. So homeschool pasal adap, rules, disiplin memang sgt perlu sejak baby lagi kan…!!??
anak2 sedara kakyong ni termasuk dlm kategori yg pandai & cerdik.. tp kalo tingkahlaku hampeh.. susah jugak kan.. sian kat depa!!
dan skrg kalo depa dtg, memang dikunci semua pintu bilik.. termasuk toilet.. kalo tak meriah lah deme, selongkar sana-sini…
just imagine, bila mama nya cuma ckp.. “biasa lah budak2, memang mcm tu.. ” agak2nyer boleh ke kita terima ALASAN itu kerana mereka budak2…??!!! I just really CAN’T read her minds.. now, bukan setakat kakyong & makbonda.. my sister sorg lagi pun tak tahan, selalu my sis citer ~ kalo 2 org tu dtg rumah.. letih kume dibuatnyer.. lebih letih dari menjaga 3 org hero2 nyer..
saya ada anak adhd. dan ada features autistik.
susah nak kawal. org pandang semacam, as if we’re bad parents.
kami pun tak mintak jadi begitu tp kami redha dgn apa yang Allah bagi. cuma pse understand why we do what we do and why we act the way we do.
adhd is a disorder, cuma susah nak differentiate between disorder dgn nakal kan.
saya percaya kata2 ibu itu doa. kalau anak2 buat hal, cakaplah ‘hai anak beriman.. jgn le buat gitu gini’.
sorry all, xdpt reply satu2. sgt busy ngurusin hal ehwal nk pindah niii.
anak saya perkasa budiman..lagi bijaksana!!hahahahaa
Akhirnya baju mok ngoh beli buleh dipakai oleh Fahry dengan lamanya (?)