Becoming A Wife, Again

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Having these 2 boys, even when Fahry is not home, making me really have no time for myself, as well as time for Abiy.

If we have something to discuss, the ONLY time to do is during our journey to the hospital. Now that we are no more going to the hospital, and very rarely going out together, we somewhat having ‘communication breakdown’.

During weekdays, Abiy is not having breakfast at home, instead he brings the food to office and has his breakfast outside. Furthermore, mealtime is not suitable time to talk about personal matter cos we are eating together with Bibik and we try to avoid any family discussion with Bibik presence, it’s not nice when outsider knows about our family matter, even if she’s our maid cos she’s not one of the family member afterall.

And because of that (not much communication), I am rarely look after myself, and I am very comfortable in my old T-shirt and kain sarung every now and then. My hair and look,… IF Abiy is a playboy I bet he’ll look for someone better.

After had a conversation with Kak N yesterday evening, I realize that even if I think I am a good mother but I am not a good wife. I wear simple outfit for my kids, so that I don’t take much time on myself. I don’t wear perfume, or even lotion, or even body talc. But when thinking about Abiy’s concern (He never mentioned about it, but who knows?)

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Today I’m back to the ‘teenager look’ with bright T-shirt and trousers rather than wearing kain sarung like mak nenek. I tot I’m not fit the trousers anymore (perasan buncit) but thanks to Bengkung Moden!

bengkungmoden OK this bengkung is really good for anyone who wants to reduce of hide the ‘spare tyres’. Not only for moms in confinement or caesarian mom, sapa-sapa pun bole pakai. It can acts like girdle. Kalau nak kata korset tu tak lah… cos it’s not shaped like that. But it is very flexible plus the material is non-latex, serap peluh & tak panas.

The velcro is very special since it can be ‘lekat’ on any of the bengkung’s surface. So doesn’t matter how you’re changing your waist size, it can be worn anytime. And you can wear it to jalan-jalan, office, pasar, etc. Nobody would notice that you are actually on bengkung!

Nak simpan pun senang. It doesn’t require much space. I just gulung the bengkung and with the velcro, it won’t terburai dah. And to wash it pun just gulung and put the velcro on, then can wash using washing machine.

(Apa kaitan sebenarnya antara komunikasi suami isteri dengan bengkung? Tapi bengkung ni memang best, recommended to everyone).

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26 responses to “Becoming A Wife, Again”

  1. Fid Avatar

    kalu org dah lama bersalin(3 thn) bleh pakai??ada kesan?

    ada harapan, insya allah. tapi sebaiknya pakai bersama gel sireh emas (kalo klik link tu ada dalam sales letternya) utk kesan yg lebih cepat. dan pakai bengkung siang & malam, selama 24 jam.
    PLUS disiplin

  2. mamadanish Avatar
    mamadanish

    kita serupa la..
    asyik sibuk ngan anak saja..kesian hubby..
    huuhuhuhhuuhuhhuuh

    lepas ni azam nak melawa balik la..

    jom2 azam 2009 hehehe

  3. Zety Avatar

    sama laaa. dah ada anak dua memang kelam kabut jadinya. diri sendiri terabai (atau malas nak uruskan hahaha). macamana la mak-mak kita yang anak ramai tu kan?

    erm… mana nak cari bengkung ni? hehehe

    tu la tak paham laaa
    my makcik anak 6 orang tapi menten je lawa
    bergaya lagi
    ini anak baru masuk 2 tapi dah takleh kontrol
    aduh duh duh duh

  4. Zety Avatar

    oh tak perasan ada link kat situ. adeh malunya.
    sowie ye.

    hihihi. takpa jangan malu2. masuk2 😛

  5. noor hidaya Avatar
    noor hidaya

    along,

    ingat aku lagi?!daya?….maybe ko can email aku privately?really want to talk to you.

    ha aku dah emel dah
    cepat2 reply
    hehehe

  6. salwa Avatar

    lyna hang ni lawak la…
    kite ni pon sama…anak dah dua masing2 mula nakal..kdg ternampak diri sendiri dlm cermin terkejut…lo ni rupanye aku skrg…huhu…siannye suamiku…
    nak pakai gak bengkung…ntah2 saiz plg besar kut kite ni

    hehehe. skg baru berjinak2 dengan segala krim bagai hekhekhek.
    usahakan yang terbaik utk suami tercenta kan

  7. salwa Avatar

    lyna kite tak paham nape icon kite kat comment box ni huduh sgt..org lain sume lawaaaa je….comment box ni bole detect rupa commentor melalui cara penulisan ke…hahahaha..

    hahaha. tatau cemana nak tuka dah. dah lupa tuhari tekang tang mana 😛
    *tekang plak, tecakap gaya zizang plaj dh 😛

  8. naihusna Avatar
    naihusna

    kat mana alom beli bengkung tu.??..nk pakai gak la..wpon blom kawin lg..tp biasalah nk mengempiskan perut..hehe..

    beli kat link yg kat atas tu & if tekan gamba tu pon kuar link
    kat side bar pun ada
    hehehe

  9. bAiTi Avatar
    bAiTi

    Hiks, tergelak baca cerita kali ni ;)..

    Memang bila dah dah punya + bertambah anak ni, biasanya kita akan selalu TERlebihkan anak2 dari diri sendiri termasuk la hubby kadang2, hehehe.. Even, k.Baiti pun kadang2 kalau dapat shopping, mesti lebihkan brg anak2 dulu, baru utk diri sendiri quang.. quang.. quang.. Tapi tak boleh lah selalu macam tu, ada masa kita pun kena didahulukan terlebih dahulu, kan? kan? hehehe..

    Selamat menjadi teenager semula, hehehe..

    itula bila dah ada anak, jadi alpa sekejap pasal diri sendiri
    tapi bila terfikirkan hasben, alamak, takleh jadi ni
    kene balance bak kata orang tu hehe

  10. intan Avatar

    ahahhaa..ye cik siti, you should give a look at your hubby eventhough he never comment…but this unpredictable species is hard to tell kannnnn…=> pesanan utk diri sendirik gak nih…huhuhuuu

    betul sangat tu
    teringat pulak 1 cerita
    laki dia sikit pun tak bising wife serabai
    sekali bawak balik lagi sorang bini
    alasan, wife dah xpandai jaga diri, serabai je
    huhuhu
    dia tak penah cakap, tapi hatinya merintihh…

  11. mamaYan Avatar
    mamaYan

    Hahaha…nih entry paling lawak plak rasa…..tapi pasal bengkung moden nih mmg tak pernah dengar before nih…..Even saya nih dahlah beranak c-sect dulu…haihhhh….tapi saya pakai gak bengkung….gynea saya suh pegi beli sports binder kat farmasi…rupa dier ala-ala bengkung moden nih jugak lahh…..and it works too….cuma dier sedikit pendeklah kan….kata untuk sports……and after 4 days deliver tu…on the way balik umah from hospital saya dah start pakai binder tu…doktor tolong pakaikan dulu before discharge…ahahah….dier ajar cemana nak pakai sekali la…..pastu mmg tak rasa sakit….selesa….boleh jalan macam bukan org beranak bedah….mmg recommended utk c-sect…..and rasanya mmg cepat kempislah perut…..dah back to normal even before abis pantang lagi….tapi minyak sapu saya pakai yang cap nona roguy tuh….okaylah rasanya….huhuhu…tapi for anak 2nd nih (kalau ader rezeki nnt) rasanya nak try bengkungmoden nih la pulak…….Thanks for the info BTW…eheheh

    sebenarnya… malu la nak mengaku. tapi masa belum kawen+beranak, perut i lagi berlipat2. skg dah kurang sikit la lipatannya hehehe

  12. zuhaini Avatar

    wah.. menarik ni.. harus ku promote pada my preggy sister! 🙂

    harus, harus.
    benda baik apa salahnya kita kongsi2 kan. 😀

  13. Fith Avatar
    Fith

    Kak lina,tergelak pulak baca entry ni.
    tapi memang betul laa tu,most of us bila dah jadi mommy,tak sempat pun nak melawakan diri kan.fith sekarang ni tengah mabuk2,lagi laa teruk haa,nak sikat rambut pun rasa tak larat.tapi tak per,tunggu mabuk2 ni berlalu pergi,boleh laa melaram kembali,jadi preggy lady ni pun boleh seksi jugak kan?kan?hehehe
    take care ya!

    jom kita buat makeover! preggy ke, anak 8 ke, mesti kene tetap cantik+sexy kan? 😀

  14. Babe Avatar
    Babe

    Lina, aku dah lama tak singgah sini.

    Fahry sweet ok!! muka dia macam muka Hafiy kecik2 aku tgk tapi fahry muka panjang sikit!

    Comel!Bila aku nak travel Miri ni

    mana ko pegi?
    mai la sini… tgk hafiy pakai sandal yg ko kasik tu dah ketat2 dah hehehe

  15. salzahari Avatar
    salzahari

    Lina..ingat dak my entry dulu psl Make Date with ur luv ones? haa.. betul la tu, sbb tu last month i gi buat hair treatment sbb rambut sgt serabai ok :p instead of for hubby,for myslef to have this feeling (perasan cantik) :p

    i don’t wear batik at home but after starting BF, never wear any nighties lagi sbb susah nak selak (Selak atas, bwh nmpk :p upss).so mcm budak muda la, pakai baby-T and legging/trousers dah comfortable enuff!

    i ingat nakgi potong rambut tapi kalo huby tak anta, mmg tak pegi punyala hahahha
    skg ni i pakai baju2 huby sal baju2 i duk kat KL sumer huhuhuh. apakan daya…

  16. kak N Avatar

    Enjoy being a mother of two son and be a good wife… All the best!

    TQ kak N! rakan seperjuangan ehhehe.

  17. Kak Nik Avatar
    Kak Nik

    K.nik pung paka kain sarung sokmo tp baju kena matching dgn warna kain tu..he..he..hok baju moden la sket sbb ala2 t-shirt ank dara gitew (yg fit sket). kdg2 match dgn seluar/skirt labuh. Segho nok tamboh koleksi seluar/skirt tp bila nak start ntah. Psst..kalu ado sponsor maybe cpt sket..hak..hak..tp bab2 besolek tak suke sgt.perfume ok ler.Kene jgk ko bengkung tu, keno koho2 hipung pitih nih ;)Tak saba nak kembali ke bentuk asal 🙂

    dulu2 kalo pakai baju & kain sarung mesti keno matching. leni… belasah aje aduuh
    nk hipung pitih jugok sero nok beli seluar baru huk sexy2 sikit 😛

  18. NeroEcha Avatar

    Menarik gak bengkung tu ekk..mana tahu pakai ms pantang nanti blh slim kat perut ini..

    menarik2. nk pakai pun senang. hehe.

  19. LeeN Avatar

    hehe. aritu mmg leen sungguh2 surf website tu masa entry psl bengkung moden tu.. tgh menyimpan hajat ni.. haha… adoi. i think i really need it………….aaaaaa.

  20. mirah Avatar

    Hehe nak gelak pun ada baca entry ni.
    Yes mmg betul kena jaga penampilan juga pd mata suami walaupun dia tak pernah komen..
    Anyway macam cerita tergantung je, eh ada sambungan lagi ke? hihi..

  21. puteri1@mama_aqilah Avatar

    oh bagus eh…harus cuba beli nanti,…

  22. fidieyaaa Avatar

    Soka… ok, i won’t as about that blue dress anymore. U can have it if u wish, make my in-law happy (if u don’t, i’m still for it, :))

  23. mamaamir Avatar
    mamaamir

    agak2.. baju camner yang sesuai utk kita pakai semasa di rumah.. any idea…mudah but sexy.. ahhaa

  24. Joely Avatar
    Joely

    hihi..yelah along…drpd hal suami terabai..tibe2 sangkut tang bengkung moden..kuikui…aku anak sorg pon..kdg2 wat dek je kt mr hubby..mn idaknyer..br anak sorg pon penat xterkata..bab berpakaian..nk pakai sexy2 pun dah segan beb..maklum la..anak dh makin besar..so kene pakai yg menutup aurat jugak jadiknyer…xsusah pon nk melawa kt rumah..pakai je yg matching in color..sdap mata memandang..dandan sket rambut pakai ala2 comel gitu…kalau anak kecik lg…leh la pakai ala2 seksi gitu..kalau dh besar..kene pakai baju yg cantik2…kita pon rs seronok..kalau pandai make up…make up la siket2..kasi muka tu nampak alive…(ckp pandai..buat nyer belum tentu lg nih..huhuh)

  25. kakLuna Avatar

    ye ye..bagus pakai bengkung ni…akak dulu pakai yg jamu afiat punya je lah…bengkung tu dah siap bubuh rempah2 nya..nk pakai kene ikat2 ke depan ke belakang..ayoyo..mcm mummy the return.

  26. kakLuna Avatar

    bab melawa ni, kalo boleh, cuba la utk look nice depan suami..berpahala tu!

    pakai minyak wangi ke..lip balm ke..pakai eyeliner pun ok gak 😛

    nmpk natural.

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