I am Not a Yasmin Ahmad’s Fan, but Her Mother’s Word Really Made My Heart Tore

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When I heard about Allahyarhamah Yasmin Ahmad’s demise last week, immediately came across my head (of course after the honorable ‘wishes’ – inna lillahi wa inna ilaihi rojiun) “So who will make PETRONAS’s great commercial?”. So notty me thinking about it kan.

I’m not her fan, but I like, urm.. sometimes.. to follow the controversy she ignited, especially in her films. I still remember reading reviews about her first film, Rabun years ago. Many were disgaree with the scene ‘husband and wife taking bath together with a piece of cloth (berkembam)’, and lots more complaints about her other masterpieces, mostly about the kembam2 things and the mesra2 between families. How funny. I don’t think these received such condemn:

filem rempitfilem bohsia

And of course I love her commercials. So unique and even I had to pause for some seconds to think about messages behind the ads. For instance, Abiy and I always talk about the messages in the commercial. Surprisingly we found out that most of them are pointed to the PETRONAS’s staffs themselves. HaHaHa.

iklan petronas

Last Saturday we watched Majalah 3 – Pewarisan Yasmin Ahmad.

Lots of touching elements in the tribute program.

  • Lots of people visited her, at the masjid and graveyard, including non-Muslims. When my time comes, will I have such lots of visitors?
  • Friends cried for her demise, including men. What had she done to them until they willing to drop their tears (the men)?
  • Her left is a big loss, and she received lots of ucapan from her fans, mostly non-Malays.
  • She was said to be the pioneer of 1Malaysia.
  • Many more…

And the most touchy part is when her mother cried while embracing the soil where she laid beneath.

  • Will my mother cries like that if I leave her to other world?

And when her mother talked about her.

“Dia tak pernah tinggi kan suara, kalau tertinggikan, dia akan cepat2 datang sembah kaki makcik”

“Kita pergi sama2 ye mak. Sini mak, sini orang, sini abah..”

“That’s my mother”

“Orang nak mak yang mati dulu sebab orang nak sempurnakan mak & jaga mak sampai akhir hayat mak”

“Arwah pesan pada adik2nya “’l try my best to make mak happy and you jangan buat mak cry”.

No wonder she made the films as tribute to her parents. I think I never love my parents until that level. I’m not sure if I go before my mother, whether she’ll say the same thing about me (macam tak je hahaha).

She’s this era’s exmaple of a good daughter. Even if she’s at her 50s but her attitute toward her mother and father never changed. As what Azean Erdawaty said “Arwah macam budak kecil yang belum tercemar mindanya”. I guess she’s very true!

When I look in the mirror and picture myself, I see somebody with lots of holes. I even couldn’t be in the same seat with Arwah Yasmin Ahmad. As a daughter and as a mother.

I know I better do something.

Tit tit tit tit…. “Hello, assalamualaikum Mok….”

catatan kasih sayang ibu

“sayang anak Mommy~”

Al-Fatihah to Yasmin bt Ahmad. May Allah bless her, as she brings lots of joy and great honour to her mother.

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35 responses to “I am Not a Yasmin Ahmad’s Fan, but Her Mother’s Word Really Made My Heart Tore”

  1. mamadanish Avatar
    mamadanish

    I pun terpk, adakah mama i akan berkata demikian?
    Huhuhuhh….
    .-= mamadanish´s last blog ..Review : Understanding Your Child’s Early Development*updated =-.

    1. Mommy Lyna Avatar
      Mommy Lyna

      if i takleh wat mak i cakap camtu, i nak cakap cemtu kat anak2 i~ wooo~~~

  2. yusz Avatar

    true.. tgk rancangan tu, suddenly terfikir how bad i am, since her mom cerita all those good things & of coz her mom very proud of her. saya ini sgt jahat lorr… huhu
    .-= yusz´s last blog ..Mom Bloggers Planet-Cutest Baby With Toys =-.

    1. Mommy Lyna Avatar
      Mommy Lyna

      hmmm kan?

      bangganya mak dia ada anak cenggitu. but it’s not too late to be liek that kan. (harus call mak kerap2 ni!)

  3. babycomel Avatar
    babycomel

    ini n3 bikin daku

    1. Mommy Lyna Avatar
      Mommy Lyna

      syhh syhhhh jangan nangis nah amik cekelat ni

  4. ummisalsabila Avatar

    aah, mak kite de tak terpk camtu.rs camtu.bangga camtu.sedihnye..
    .-= ummisalsabila´s last blog ..Aufa @ 10 months =-.

    1. Mommy Lyna Avatar
      Mommy Lyna

      Ce tanya dia mana tau dia pun ada rasa cemtu.

  5. mamaadib Avatar
    mamaadib

    “Dia tak pernah tinggi kan suara, kalau tertinggikan, dia akan cepat2 datang sembah kaki makcik”

    aku?? huhuhu

    1. Mommy Lyna Avatar
      Mommy Lyna

      Apa kata kau start buat. Agak2 mak kau hepi ke dia ckp ko buang tebiat. Huhu.

  6. tini Avatar

    mmg btl. tgk rancangan tu trs buat berpikir2.. how bad i am.. patut la adibah nor ckp, kejayaan dia sbb restu ibu bapa dia. mmg nmpk sgt mak ayah dia sayang & bangga with her attitude. oooh harus call mak sll nih!
    .-= tini´s last blog ..I got him =-.

    1. Mommy Lyna Avatar
      Mommy Lyna

      True. Before I igt macam kita2 je la arwah & her parents. Rupanya.. Mmg btol macam kita. Tapi kita 20 years back. Huhuhu..

  7. Mummy Dasy Avatar

    huhuhu mak arwah mmg proud of her…
    ku belum sampai ke tahap itu lagi huhuhu
    .-= Mummy Dasy´s last blog ..Jauhkanlah =-.

    1. Mommy Lyna Avatar
      Mommy Lyna

      Try tanya ur mom. Mana tau lg lebih dr arwah. Hehe.

  8. Salwa Avatar

    arwah mmg sgt disayangi mak nya
    kalu tgk macam mana mak dia defend dia habis2an dgn kudrat tuanya tu
    mmg kita tau betapa sayangnya mak nya terhadap arwah
    hanya anak yg baik akan disayangi begitu
    .-= Salwa´s last blog ..Am I ready for that day? =-.

    1. Mommy Lyna Avatar
      Mommy Lyna

      kita pun anak2 yg baik, mesti mak2 kita sayang kita kan. hehehe

  9. Hanz Avatar

    betul..arwah Yasmin Ahmad is indeed a ‘good’ daughter…me pun macam u Lyna, once I heard about her departure, all I think was this Hari Raya I would defitinely miss the anticipation of seeing her briliiant commercial work..
    .-= Hanz´s last blog ..Vote Me for Breastfeeding Photo Contest =-.

    1. Mommy Lyna Avatar
      Mommy Lyna

      takpe, patah tumbuh hilang berganti hehehe

  10. Nur Avatar

    sbnrnya kan, despite of her controversial issue..she is truly a great personality. even short commercials are delivered with great persona, nobody else yet can do that. Most of the time the film come with heavy messages, tp org kita yg x suka berfikir. not that i am agree with all the messages but some of it worth pondering upon. filem rabun for example, nothing is wrong with hubby & wifetaking bath together, right?lg enhance our intimate moments adalah..hehehe..
    .-= Nur´s last blog ..ENMG =-.

    1. Mommy Lyna Avatar
      Mommy Lyna

      taktau kenapa orang nampak adegan tu buruk. tapi budak2 muda bero**n takde pula kene kutuk sampai macam tu. hehe.

      mungkin orang kita lebih menerima kelakuan budak2 muda daripada orang tua.

  11. sya Avatar

    filem dia memang hebat..
    walaupun saya juga tak berapa berkenan dengan sesetengah scene, tapi saya sangat suka jalan cerita dia…
    yang paling saya suka ialah…. muhsin! 😛
    .-= sya´s last blog ..join MLM? =-.

    1. Mommy Lyna Avatar
      Mommy Lyna

      tak sempat nak tgk muhsin. sepet & gubra je tengok berkali2 sbb duk asik ulang je kat astro ehhehe.

  12. yatie chomeyl Avatar
    yatie chomeyl

    btol2x..ore tengok jugop M3 tu, raso mace sumo ore di sekeliling dio saye dio sgt2.

    at least ore x raso ralat bilo ma ore meninggal sebab wpon jauh ore sokmo tepong & oyat “I love you” maso arwah ma masih hidup. lo ni tgh nak practice oyat ko MIL plop..mulo2 meme janggal, lamo2 bilo dh beso..ok lah 😉
    .-= yatie chomeyl´s last blog ..VOTE BPC39 Yatie Chomeyl : Breastfeeding Photo Contest 2009 =-.

    1. Mommy Lyna Avatar
      Mommy Lyna

      dop ajing lg oyak i labiu ko tok tuwo ni
      huhuhuhu

  13. ida-z Avatar

    eemm..tepon mama mmg almost everyday..tp belum terluah I love u mama..perlu ke ?

    Rasa diri tak setanding dia jugak bila bab2 jaga hati parents nih..isk..isk..
    .-= ida-z´s last blog ..The Clown of Mummy’s heart =-.

    1. Mommy Lyna Avatar
      Mommy Lyna

      saya pun tak penah cakap i luv u kat mak
      kalau dalam kad je ada tulis hehe
      budaya kita tak biasa kot kan

  14. ayuarjuna Avatar

    banyak yang boleh diambil iktibar terutama orang yang pergi diingati kerana begitu taat kepada orang tuanya…
    .-= ayuarjuna´s last blog ..Aktiviti Dugro kat One Utama =-.

  15. aidie Avatar
    aidie

    tersentuh hati…terus mencermin diri, adakah kita seorang anak yang taat kpd ibubapa, seorg isteri yg terbaik buat suami, seorang ibu yg mithali utk anak2..
    terpaku sebentar..

    on the side note: saper nak buat iklan petronas ni…

  16. yaya Avatar

    Bagi diri i, i memang suka dan tabik hasil kerja dia yg kreatif begitu juga cara layanan dia dengan ibunya, satu jek yg tak berapa berkenan which is ade 2 filem dia yg dialog dia kurang sedap seperti si amani ckp “u stupid MALAY man (mcm2 lagi maki lelaki melayu)” di tekankan dan ulang byk kali. mcm nak ckp lelaki melayu ni tak guna, habis tu lelaki cina semua bagus2 ke (husband dia pun cina). Well, itu pandangan saya….
    .-= yaya´s last blog ..Gemoknya ko ni, amboi ayat…. =-.

  17. Mommy Lyna Avatar
    Mommy Lyna

    memang menginsafkan, kan?

  18. ibu emir Avatar

    Yes, bile mira tengok mak dia kate macam tu dengan penuh perasaan, mira terfikir, i never did that for my mum, i mean call tetiap hari, terluke kan hati mak, and i dont think my mum will remember me towards that extend kan..

    alfatihah
    .-= ibu emir´s last blog .. =-.

  19. fid Avatar

    M3 tak da ulangan ka??

  20. salzahari Avatar
    salzahari

    saya suka edisi khas ni cuma kurang suka bab mak dia merintih di kubur. rasanya semua org pernah mengalami saat kehilangan! memang itu yg real kot TV3 capture tp rasa sgt dramatik..kurang sesuai merintih gitu ditunjukkan pd awam (anak2 kecil akan tanya leh ke nangis gitu2).

    mcm Yaya cakap, betul juga..mungkin saya sedikit conservative. bab citer Rabun tu sukar nak terima tp ok, sbb halal 😉 tp filem2 lain agak melangkau adat kemelayuan (abaikan yg citer2 komersil lain-mmg tak ber’ilmu’). saya suka hasil dia dlm iklan2 sahaja !

    no offense please…

    anyway, saya rasa mak dia adalah antara mak paling bangga sbb punya anak serupa arwah Yasmin yg begitu putih bersih. kita, begitukah?

    pd yg masih ada mak, selalu2lah gembirakan mereka….tanya khabar, temankan diaorg.

    ** AlFatihhah utk allahyarhamah Fatimah Hj Ibrahi,

  21. laila Avatar

    al-fatihah…

    sama… sama… sy pun terfikir benda yg sama cam u ms mula2 tau..
    pasni dh tader laa iklan best2…

    hmm.. terfikir jugak… adakah org lain or my mum akan bersedih sebegitu sekiranya kita pergi dulu… huhuhu…
    .-= laila´s last blog ..Teka? Apa nama show ni? =-.

  22. kak cha Avatar
    kak cha

    Yasmin ahmad hanya ada satu sahaja. Begitu juga dengan P Ramlee , sudirman & ustaz asri rabanni. Al-fatihah buat mereka.

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