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it has been a week, i didn’t go to SCN to see Fahry. and for a week, Abiy went there every morning and night, other than bringing Fahry his food, was to check on him and perform gentle massage. he is a great father, juggling with his office work, family at home & at the hospital. we knew that Abiy is exhausted cos most of the time, people in the office will go for him and need him to be in some important meetings, including inter-boundary meeting with Brunei. and he has to take care for his own family, beside his mom’s family in KL. Abiy is a big hearted guy, isn’t he?

Abiy told that Fahry was moved from in front of nurse’s counter into a room next to it, and now wearing cloth diaper 😀

Fahry is now taking 25ml per feeding and is constantly in sleeping mode everytime Abiy goes there. his current weight is unknown. i hope he’s gaining weight lah.

Abiy said the wound at his right foot is ‘dry’. and his skin also dry so i bought Buds Baby Lotion, because it is organic and i was too afraid to put paraben things on his thin skin 😀 Abiy uses that cream to massage his body.

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this evening Abiy told me “i think you should be there. poor lil boy, nobody is there to comfort him”. i said even if my eyes now is OK but i rather wait for 2-3 days to make myself confidence that i am really OK. yeah i as much as possible try to bring away any harm from my babies.

nothing much on Fahry that i knew. i hope he’s getting bigger by the time i’m there to treat him. i always remember Fahry’s smell, and can’t wait to be there again.

today i got some calls and texts from some close friends who just knew about Fahry, and they felt bad about that. i must say that, don’t be, cos i really didn’t tell anyone about Fahry, except my ex-roomate cos i don’t know how to. oh tidak kelakar. for others who really want to know more about Fahry, i just say “u can check it in my blog”.

and you know, when somebody in a happy mood congratulate you for your new baby, would you rather ruin it by telling about your child that might be heart-melting. others maybe are, but i’m not. & i dont want anybody to assume that we’re in misery for having Fahry, no. he’s my son & we are so happy. & would you still be happy if someone tell you “my baby cacat”? would you still eager to congratulate? furthermore, most of the time they’ll ask “baby sihat?”, so i answer “sihat alhamdulillah”. 🙂

so, to make everything easy to everyone, i rather put it in this blog rather than telling everybody personally.

(Hafiy sometimes gives me headache for he likes to stay up at night and disallow me to pump for Fahry’s milk)

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I am a wife to a great husband. I am a proud mother of two adorable sons. I am a full time working at home mom (WAHM). I am breastfeeding my 3 sons, a daughter and looking forward to breastfeed my next babies. I like to share my pregnancy, breastfeeding and parenting as well as travel experience cos every journey is unique. *-*-*-*-*-*-*-*-*-*-*-*-* bundle of joys, Hafiy, Fahry, Danny & Irene.

One response to “A week”

  1. Mommy Lyna Avatar
    Mommy Lyna

    saya doakan semoga mami fahry cepat sembuh sakit matanya so that boleh jenguk2 fahry di hospital.

    fahry memang anak yang kuat. u r so lucky to have him
    zety | Homepage | 12.18.08 – 8:23 am | #

    Gravatar yes, the father should be the toughest man ever here.
    I remembered my dear husband tak pernah mengeluh ke or show his true feelings during our hard times before. He just kept being calm because she said khadijah was lucky compared to other babies kat nicu yang ada mcm2 komplikasi lagi..
    mirah | Homepage | 12.18.08 – 8:32 am | #

    Gravatar sakit pinggang sumer dah lega ke lyna?
    hoho…hafiy balas dendam rindu kat mami dia tuuu
    mrs noba | 12.18.08 – 8:46 am | #

    Gravatar dear lina,

    i am proud to see a woman of such inner strength, it is not easy to smile when your heart is aching, believe me, i know…been there. But don’t be afraid to tell others about ur baby, they felt bad about ur baby bot because they pity u, but they feel ur pain too… and they know how hard it is for u…it is part and parcel of life…pain, happiness and ups and downs. Fret not, Allah will always help us, no matter what. He only tests those He believe can go through them, not more, not less. So have faith in urself, and believe…ur friends are here to support u no matter what…it is what friends are for, don’t u think? SO smile dear, though there are better days…the best days are ahead waiting for you…
    k ina | 12.18.08 – 9:14 am | #

    Gravatar hafiy
    hafiykan abang…
    bg la mami pam susu untuk adik….
    sian adik….
    Fid | Homepage | 12.18.08 – 9:23 am | #

    Gravatar Alhamdullilah… Akak cuma bimbang, bila lama tak update, berita buruk pulak datang tiba tiba…

    Kalau dah cargas dua dua… ok la. Kalau baby keluar dari wad nanti, tengok la abang dia macam mana… mungkin lebih baik atau mungkin jeles. Dalam melayan kerenah si kecil, yang besar jangan lepas pandang… kecikkkkkkk plak ati dia… kan ?

    Dan jangan minta dia berkorban… dia tak reti apa pun… dan tak faham pun… kan ?

    Pastikan juga ayah dia still ada masa untuk dia sama… bukan adik saja… kan ?

    Apa apa hal pun, akak pasti Lina mesti tau apa yang perlu dibuat…

    Take care… cium dua duanya utk kami diinternet ni sama…
    izawani | Homepage | 12.18.08 – 10:00 am | #

    Gravatar fahry..cepat2 membesar… nnti leh geng ngn abg hafiy…hehe!
    p-na mama oja | Homepage | 12.18.08 – 10:35 am | #

    Gravatar bila hati merela & meredhakan, you and your family will always smile… and at a point setiap kali senyum, you’ll feel how sweet iman is. frankly, it’s not that hard..

    oh thank god we share the same thing. a great hubby & daddy. tak pernah mengeluh walau sedikit pun. wait until you have to see the specialist on monthly basis.

    premie baby means – ROP checking, ENT checking. syafiah check segala. mata, telinga, kepala (planted VP shunt meaning you’ve to meet the neuro), terapi (physio & speech)…

    you’ll face many new things in your life and somehow you learn the medical terminologies faster than any medical student.

    there’s a reason why Allah swt chose you not anybody else…
    suealeen | Homepage | 12.18.08 – 12:45 pm | #

    Gravatar tahun ni saja hubby punya unpaid leave dah berpuluh kali… poor him!
    suealeen | Homepage | 12.18.08 – 12:46 pm | #

    Gravatar from a woman to another woman: you really rock, lyna!

    your babies must be really glad to have you as their mommy! semoga fahry membesar with a positive mind just like his mommy! (btw, gosh, banyak betul medical condition possibilities masa pregnant rupa2nya!)
    mama shmontel | Homepage | 12.18.08 – 2:04 pm | #

    Gravatar Along, I salute your strength in dealing with this matter. To say I know how u feel wud not be the right words, becos I’m not put in a similar situation and never was.

    However, I know what it must be like to say something abt our beloved ones esp something ‘special’ abt them. It is not easy, and even as time goes by it doesnt neccesarily gets easier.

    My big brother is ‘special’ in his own way. He’s physically OK but not mentally. He’s not retarded. He’s juz ‘special’. Many ppl wud find it uneasy if i tell them the first time, and it doesnt make any difference even if i tell them many2 times after they met my brother.

    So I juz let them find out on their own. Eventually, they’ll know. But for me to spill the words, it is hard. Not dat I’m ashamed of him, no, not even a slight feeling. I jz feel sorry for him sometimes esp when ppl say the-not-so-nice things abt him. I cant shut their mouth evrytime but I know i can protect my brother from further torment.

    And I’ll do that.For as long as i cud, I’ll protect him. Always and forever. And I keep praying to God dat one day, he’s able to look after himself.

    But like i said, i admire your strength cos you are able to at least pour your thoughts in ur blog. I cud never mention abt my brother becos I dont think anyone wud understand.

    Tapi dah tercerita plak kat sini..hehe..peace~! I luv my brother to the max! He’s my big brother, the one and only.

    So Fahry pun nanti mesti sayang Hafiy tau…igt pesan Aunty~
    Mama Shazzy | Homepage | 12.18.08 – 2:16 pm | #

    Gravatar Salam Along, ingat kak anah lagi? Terserempak dgn blog ni and i think kenal siapa orangnya.

    Anyway, harap everything will be great for you and fahry. Congratulations for your newborn and I hope fahry will grow tremendously.

    Take care and kisses for both of your children.

    Kak anah, utp
    kak anah | 12.18.08 – 2:36 pm | #

    Gravatar yes, abiy is responsible and good hearted. me cant wait to see u reunite back with fahry..
    ibu emir | Homepage | 12.18.08 – 9:28 pm | #

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