Hello World!

By | October 8, 2007

THE BIRTH STORY

this real story is a bit contradict with Abi’s version ;p

actually, i didn’t know it was labor.

on the 4th, about 2pm, it was a yellowish thick mucus came out but only for once, and i tot it was only the usual discharge, but maybe slightly thicker. the next day about 4.30pm, light mucus+blood appeared, followed by strong backache like what i usually experience during mensturation. i called dr. awang telling him about what happen, he said, it usually takes 2-3 days for the first child after the ‘show’ appears. and he asked me to go to the hospital if i have stomach ache (contraction) in every 10 minutes. but i didn’t feel any pain on my belly, only on my back. he said “oh, it’s just the sign”.

i told my mom. she said, she usually had abdominal cramp and not backache. again, i tot it was just ‘the sign’ and the true contraction is still far ahead. “for how long i have to wait…?”

at 9.00pm, my aunties & granny came to the house. looking at my condition, granny suggested to go straight to the hospital since i had a very severe backache. so accompanied by my mom, uncle, auntie & granny, we rushed to PSH. before got into the car, i took 2 pills of ubat selusuh given by my auntie earlier in the morning.

after registring at Emergency & Accident, the nurse pushed me into the labour room. i still didn’t feel the cramp but the backache frequency was getting closer. the nurse, called Kak Zura asked me to change to pink hospital dress and laid down on the bed. she put the device to check my contraction and baby’s heartbeat on my belly… reaaaaallly disturbing! however, the chart showed that my contraction was 2-3minutes apart! but since this is the first baby, and my show only happened 5 hours ago, she told my family that this is just ‘main-main aje ni’. she said, the earliest i’m gonna give birth is in the morning.

but my backache was very strong, like it’s gonna broke. i said to myself, if this is only ‘main-main’, i can’t imagine how severe the true labor is.

but, looking at my condition, my aunt asked Kak Zura to check my dilation. she just tried and.. uh-oh, it was 5-6cm! she called the doctor but dr. awang will only coming after terawikh. huhu. she gave me ethonox gas but i tot i doesn’t help much.

the labor pain is really……. if i can tell….. until at one point i could say “cemana la ada orang nak beranak ramai2… :P”

at 11.00pm, dr awang came and check my dilation. he said, “don’t push even if you feel to do so. you’re still not fully dilate. i know you’ll feel an urge to push as the baby’s pressing your rectum”. dr awang gave me drip of pethadine. he asked me to sleep while waiting for fully dilation.

but i really felt a strong urge to push! i told Kak Zura that i really need to push. she asked me to push side-lying and slowly so that it won’t hurt my baby. it was really painful until i menggelupur! then she checked me and found out “owh, i can see the baby’s hair! OK..OK.. you may push now!” and she rushed to the the doctor (i tot he was nicely talking to my dad telling that the earliest i’m gonna deliver in the next 2 hours..).

dr awang and another nurse came. i started pushing at 11.30pm, i guess. the backache all gone, left me with a BIG THING TO PUSH! it was like a soccer game, the nurses pom-pomed me with “good, Along! good! you’re doing very good!” and at 12.01am 6th october 2007…

TARA….

name : HAFIY (Kind & Affectionate in Arabic)
birth : 0001HRS, 6th OCTOBER 2007 @ HOSPITAL PAKAR PERDANA, KOTA BHARU
weight : 3.3kg
height : 54 cm

but, i have no chance to give him my breastmilk as his first feeding since the drug made me fall asleep JUST AFTER he came out. even i didn’t know when was the placenta delivered!

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HAFIY AT HOME
Abi came back a day after Hafiy was delivered. and Hafiy’s Atok & Tok Wan also came down all the way from KL just to see their first grandchild!

And Mommy’s night become full-breastfeeding session. Hafiy wakes up every one hour asking for milk! And sleeps the whole day.


Hafiy’s second day at home.

35 thoughts on “Hello World!

  1. Diana@Mama Adam Mukhriz

    congrats mommy hafiy.. sedap nama & maksud …so comei ler hero sorang nie.. wah dlm pantang pun masih online lagiks… take care ya both mommy & baby …

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  2. ain

    alhamdulillah.. dh selamat 🙂 montel betul hafiy ni.. tp takleh nak cam lagi ikut muka sape ;p congrats n take care!!!

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  3. PuteriSatu

    tahniah lina..alhamdulillah segalanya dah selamat..ni baby hafiy ni baby raya nih..seminggu sebelum raya dia kuar….kiss for hafiy…

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  4. huaida

    Salaam.

    Awwwww. I cried just reading your posts. Alhamdullilah, murah melahirkan.

    I never got around to give you the link to my blog. Email me your email add so I can pass it to you, insya Allah. My pregnancy posts are all password protected, so I’ll pass you the password too.

    (If you have time to go online again, that is. Hehe.)

    Congratulations 🙂 🙂

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  5. MummyHanis

    Congrats! Alhamdullilah awk selamat lahir kan baby boy yg cumils! Hopefully dia bole gemuk mcm hariz ek!

    I didn’t really get the experience of labor. Coz i was on epidural. I slept thruout the contraction. Untill they off the epidural ..masa tu baru rasa sket contraction bila dah penghujung tu. Tp maybe bcoz kesan epidural tu lama, so i cant hardly feel it. Tak blh imagine la kalau the real pain! erk!

    Ok, selamat berpantang k. Happy Breastfeedng!

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  6. AbiyA

    kami mengucapkan terima kasih atas semua ucapan2 🙂

    skg tgh sessi tidak cukup tidur sbb Hafiy asik menangis especially malam2.

    anyway selamat hariraya utk semua!

    -AbiyA, MommyA & Hafiy

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  7. Ibu Emir

    jeles laa along dapat beranak normal… hafiy macam sape erk ?? habis laa, cucu sulung nanti dok dukung jer, superb laa manje..

    heheh selamat hari raye

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  8. Ainul

    alhamdulillah kaklina sakit tak lama sgt and senang je hafiy kluar..comelnye die!!best bace your xperience!
    slamat hari raya buat kaklina,hubby and hafiy yg comel!maaf zahir batin..
    take care

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  9. muneera

    omg!!!!!
    alhamdulillah..congrats to along n husband…really really happy for both of you!!!n welcome to the world hafiy…be a good boy to your parents ok!=)

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  10. Fahidayati Ramli

    Alhamdulillah…

    Tahniah denagn kehadiran insan baru! Seronoknya raya tahun ni ek… dapat beraya dengan Hafiy.

    So, Hafiy taknak tarikh 13, dia nak 7 days early… apapun, selamat menjalani musim berpantang!!!

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  11. Joely

    congrats, hafiy nanges jer sumbat nenen..ehehe…die menguit je sumbat nenen cpt2 kalau die mau.kalau boleh jgn biasa kn die menangis ya!ikot muka sape hafiy ni…hehehe….

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  12. noorina

    kak along! congrats 🙂 comelnye Hafiy~
    so the contraction boleh jadi sakit di perut ataupon sakit belakang eh.. will take note on that.
    Congrats again..Selamat menyusukan Hafiy dan Selamat hari raya!
    Muahs!

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  13. kakLuna

    eiii..sama je cam yg akak rasa dulu…mmg rasa nak push je sbb sakit sgt, pdhl bukaan x sampai 10cm lagi…

    betul tu alom..akak pun ada pk,camne ler org leh beranak ramai2…sakitnya ya Allah…tp masa awal2 tu je la, bila anak dh besar ni, teringin lagi sekali nak merasainya (kali ke berikutnya tentu lebih bersedia,kan)..

    tahniah alom….semoga hafiy membesar menjadi anak yang terpuji .. 🙂 hafiy ni mesti mata sepet nih…..mcm org Sarawak 🙂

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  14. ~wan hidayat~

    ala…ala…ala…baby…ni hah uncle wan datang, nak hadiah apa?..bila nak balik Miri, tak sabar uncle nak tengok muka ni….ni hah, sempat berblogging lagi si ibu nih…jgn nakal2 and nangis2 ek…..

    uncle tunggu kat Miri…Muahhhh!!!

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  15. mommya

    cikdinz,
    alhamdulillah. dan la nk bergaya ngan baju raya tahun ni 😀

    diana,
    🙂 tq hihi. skg dia tgh tido, bole la curi2 on9 😛

    ain,
    alhamdulillah. mmg montel sungguh. tp kuat nangis tuh. huhu.

    lovelyummi,
    thank ummi… tu la dia nk raya la tu. sebbek dah prepare baju raya hihi.

    fid,
    tQ! wah nama sama ek. hehehe. nt bole la kawan 🙂

    puterisatu,
    hehe. tu la. igtkan dia nk kuar malam raya. rupanya dia nk beraya betul2 la tu.

    huaida,
    ayark, u xleft ur email la here. neway my email sauberlina@gmail.com OKeh! can emel me? 🙂

    mummyhanis,
    nanti kita lumba sapa yg paling gomoks. huhu.
    ms tengah2 sakit tu, rasanya nak je mintak sumer pain relief yg ada. epidural ke, kalo dr nak ceaser pon sanggup!!!
    breastfeeding adalah sangat indah! walopon sakit sal nipplecrack!

    ibu emir,
    insya-Allah semoga next baby Mira normal nanti, ameen 🙂
    tu la so far xde nmpk muka sapa2.
    dia ni mmg suka nk berdukung, asik mintak dukkuuung je, kalo x, merah2 muka dia nangis huhu.

    ainul,
    alhamdulillah tu la, walopon sakit giler tp xlama 🙂 hafiy xsabar2 nk kuar la agaknye hehe.

    muneera,
    hafiy mmg good boy hehe. malam2 dia xtidooooo huhuhu.

    fahidayati ramli,
    TQ! tu la dia sumer nk express. nk kuar pn xnk tggu 13, xnk tunggu Abi, kalo nk susu xnak tunggu mulut bukak pun nak isap terus 😛

    joely,
    hehe. ok jgk tu. nguit2 je sumbat nenen. tp dia ni pandai…kalo dia xnk, dia xmo bkk mulut. huhuh.

    redza,
    makasseeeehhh!!!!!

    achik,
    tima kasih achik. 🙂

    noorina,
    hehe. betul2. tu pon tanye2 sumer orang, sme cakap BUKAN, sbb xsakit perut. nasib baikla pegi hospital.. kalo x, xtau la huhu.
    Selamat Hari Raya to both of U! cepat2 bertiga ye 🙂

    kakluna,
    hehe. itu la. lama2 agaknye tgk orang anak ramai2, terasa plak nk beranak lagi.
    hehe mentang2 duk sarawak dia ikut muka sana plak ye hihi

    wan hidayat,
    hehe. kami balik taun depan kot, new year 😀 nanti datangla rumah di pujut 7B yarrrr 🙂

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  16. Anonymous

    Hye Mommy Hafiy aiseh cmner I leh terlmbt baca ni. Selamat berpantang la ye. Raya kat rumah ajela nnt ni ek hehe. Tapi xpe Hafiy ada sure lagi best. Hafiy lahir cepat sbb dia nak dpt duit raya! hehe. Selamat hari raya to u n family. Minta maaf kalau ada salah silap ye. Tahniah again on ur newborn baby! 🙂

    Ina

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  17. dinoor

    lina dan anuar, tahniah atas kelahiran hafiy, semoga sentiasa berbahagia dan ceria sentiasa.

    sure best sambut raya dgn orang baru kan?

    tahniah again….

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  18. mama fatini

    heheh adeh lambat plak dpt berite ni congrats erk akak dpt bb boy yg comel!! welcome to the club hehehhe hafiy erk name sedap.. selamat berpantang

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  19. shsuya

    WAAHHHH Hansem nya baby!! Last night tengah buka tetiba I teringat sangat kat you. I was thinking entah entah da bersalin betul pun… Congrats!!!!!!!! And dun give up on the bfeeding ok… More pics!!!!!! More pics!!!!!!

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  20. mOmmy of Triplets

    wah, hubby’s version and urs sungguh berbeza. hubby punye version sounds really easy giving birth but IF ONLY they really know what it is like kn…hihi

    but somehow or rather, ur birth experience sounds almost similar to mine. wat i felt was a backache throughout the contraction, hence explain the reason y i reached the hospital bile ‘highway’ dh bukak 9cm. mane lar nk tau tu contraction.hihi

    n i also felt the urge to push tp they stop me sbb tgh tunggu incubator for all 3 babies. n yes the ethonox cam tak jalan je kn, hehe

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  21. TedungS

    alhamdulillah.. tahniah dpt baby baru, teringat my first baby dulu dh >8thn umur dia

    EidMubarak 🙂

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  22. iman

    tahniah2. congratsss…pehh smpat blogging lagi tuhh~!!
    tahniah kak along. my baby ppon 3.3. 56 cm. take care of urslf. selamat hari raya~!!
    kiss 4 hafiy from aunty (haha!)

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  23. Lan0stZz

    congratss sitilina dear!!! we’re mommy buddies now 🙂

    welcome to the lovely world Hafiy & Selamat Hari raya to your new lil family :):)

    Lana&family

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  24. Sarah Mohd Shukor

    Salam Kak Lina…!

    Tahniah! Akhirnya apa yg dinanti dh pun selamat dilahirkan. n im now officially an aunt to hafiy. yeyeay!

    Hafiy’s cute. the name suits him well. n hopefully the meaning is a do’a to see him grow up to b kind n full with affection 🙂

    Selamat Hari Raya utk Kak Lna, Abg. Nuar dan Hafiy 🙂

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  25. ~wan hidayat~

    salam akak….besh tak raya ngn baby…hehehehe, bila nak balik Miri???, nak nengok baby….

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  26. Sarah Mohd Shukor

    Kak lina, kalau barang dh sampai, lemme know ok. sy tak guna pos laju. it might take 3 wks to reach u kot.

    baby hafiy, uncle dayat busuk. meh dukung ngan untie sarah meh 🙂

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  27. erynn

    wah bz giler mommy kita ni.. anak nak masuk sebulan blum hapdet ape2..

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  28. Kak Elle

    salam tahniah dari sg…so sorry tak tau u dah deliver safely and baby is cute too.

    take care

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  29. blackpurple @ jowopinter

    Tahniah! Tahniah! Tahniah!

    Semoga menjadi anak yang soleh, akademis dan bertaqwa. Amin.

    Reply

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